"Everyone thought I had it all together.
Inside? I was quietly disappearing."
WHEN THE PRESSURE FINALLY BROKE ME. I WAS FORCED TO BUILD THE 'INTERNAL OPERATING SYSTEM' I WISH I HAD ALL ALONG
Now I help brilliant but burnt out leaders go from running on empty to leading with unapologetic choice and presence & Become Unbreakable Leaders, no matter what hits you next
5 Signs You're Ghosting Yourself at Work
(and what to do about it)
Burnout Is The Symptom.
Absence Is The Root.
You’re not exhausted from just doing too much. You’re exhausted from doing everything except what keeps you connected to yourself.
You can take a vacation. Do the yoga. Quit the job. But if you come back to the same patterns, e.g., the over-functioning, the people-pleasing, the ignoring of your own needs, you will burn out again. Because you are still absent.
The PAVNESS™ Internal Operating System for Unbreakable Leader is the system that brings you back 'online.' It is the definitive blueprint for brilliant leaders who want to stop disappearing in the process and reclaim your choice and profound presence, no matter what hits you next.
✓ You're physically present, but emotionally absent. Your phone is in your hand, but your mind is a thousand miles away.
✓ You're a master of over-functioning. You say "yes" to every impossible deadline and pick up the pieces when others drop the ball.
✓ You have no "why." You're busy, but you're not making progress on the work that truly matters.
✓ You're a professional people-pleaser. Your decisions are rooted in external pressure, not your own purpose.
✓ You’re running on empty. The fear of burnout is no longer a fear—it's a quiet, constant reality.
Signs that there're blind spots stealing your Time, Focus and Bandwidth
Which One Hit You The Hardest?
It's not a mindset problem. It's a mental bandwidth problem. And you can get a definitive diagnosis
Find out the root cause of your burnout and what to do about it. Take the Leadership Energy Persona
Stop asking "Should I stay or quit?" and start asking, "How will I build my internal system to be l
In ONLY 5 Days (2hrs a day), We’ll Fix That.
The UNBREAKABLE LEADER Bootcamp
This is a live (online) workshop designed for corporate leaders who look strong — but secretly feel exhausted or just done.
You've mastered the corporate playbook, but you're a passenger in your own life. You've been "ghosting" yourself, and the cost is a life without choice. The Unbreakable Leader 5-Day Bootcamp is the strategic intervention for leaders who are ready to take back control and regain a life of unapologetic choice, presence and peace.
The single high-impact outcome is this: By the end of Day 5, you will have your definitive, data-backed plan to make your next move—stay, go, or pause—from a place of unapologetic choice and profound presence, not pressure.
✓ If you decide to stay: Your decision is no longer about survival. You will have a clear blueprint to install your Power Source, so you can lead with renewed energy, boundaries, and choice. You'll stay because you choose to, not because you have to.
✓ If you decide to go: Your decision is no longer about panic. You will have a clear, values-aligned exit strategy and the blueprint to build a new life with power and precision. You'll have a path, not a prayer.
✓ If you decide to pause: Your decision is no longer about indecision. You will have a clear plan to recalibrate your Alignment Compass and find the clarity you need to design a life you own. You'll be empowered, not paralyzed.
This isn't a workshop. It's a strategic surgical strike on your indecision. The outcome is a blueprint for a life of profound choice. No panic. No pressure. Just clarity, peace and a plan.
Don't have time for a 5-day live bootcamp?
No Problem!
I know your schedule is a fortress, which is why the Unbreakable Leader 5-Day Bootcamp is designed to work, on your terms.
The entire blueprint is delivered via recordings within 24 hours. This means you can:
✓ Engage on your own timeline: Watch on the flight, during a lunch break, or at 5 AM.
✓ Master on your own terms: Pause, rewind, and re-watch every single strategic insight.
✓ Join the conversation: Ask questions and get peer support in our exclusive community.
Brilliant leaders don't just find time. They architect it. This bootcamp is your blueprint to get it back, on your own terms.
What I Did (So You Don’t Have To)
✓ Spent $50,000+ on leadership retreats, therapy, coaching, trauma healing (& even psychics!)
✓ Tested 15+ career pivots and side hustle paths, most were dead ends, but ONE that WORKS
✓ Studied 100+ success stories to reverse-engineer what actually works
✓ Spent 1,000+ hours building the internal operating system I wish I had before a reset hit
✓ Distilled it into ONE repeatable method - now used by quietly powerful leaders
WHAT YOU GET
You don’t need 10 years of healing.
You don’t need to go broke figuring it out.
You don’t need to quit your job or burn your career down.
You just need a system that works — and someone who’s lived it to walk with you.
Join 40,000+ leaders who follow my work. Get the clarity, tools, and peace-first career system that took me 1,000+ hours to build — so you don’t have to.
[→ Join the Bootcamp Now]
WHEN THE CAREER & LIFE PRESSURE FINALLY BROKE ME. I WAS FORCED TO BUILD THE 'INTERNAL OPERATING SYSTEM' I WISH I HAD ALL ALONG
Inside the UNBREAKABLE LEADER
Bootcamp
Here's What You'll Gain
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LIVE Online Workshop (10 Hours Total)
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We meet daily on Monday to Friday 8:00-10.00pm EST
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1 Week of bootcamp (2 hours per day of live online sessions)
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Miss a session? No problem. All recordings will be available online!
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PAVNESS Internal Operating System Fully Installed
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Power Source Reset: Map your energy + financial baseline (including our Layoff-Ready™ Planner). Restore calm and margin — without needing to quit your job.
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Alignment Compass Activation: Reconnect who you are with how you lead. Use our Identity & Role Alignment Worksheet to stop ghosting yourself.
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Vital Direction Mapping: Design your path forward with velocity and clarity. Should you stay? Should you go? You’ll know by Day 5 — backed by your own data.
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Clarity Plan
"To Stay or To Go"
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To Stay or To Go Clarity: By the end of the bootcamp, you’ll have a data-backed plan — either to stay in your role with clarity tools & peace or leave with a plan.
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Nervous System Reset (Without the Woo): Practical tools to calm urgency loops, reduce leadership anxiety, and regulate under pressure. Created with executive minds in mind. (No breathwork. Just real strategy..)
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Strategic Action Accelerator: Learn to lead with choice — not default mode. Use our Smart Lazy Genius System to stop over-functioning and create leveraged wins in your current role (or next chapter).
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Exclusive Workbook and Tools
Easy-to-follow PDF workbooks and tools to implement every step and track your progress.
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Community Support
Surround yourself with like-minded leaders who are also walking in your shoes in our private Facebook group. Ask questions, get feedback, and stay accountable.
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1 Month FREE in The Unbreakable LEADER Lab™
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Weekly 2hrs group workshop
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Your personal “Unbreakable Board of Directors” — confidential peer sounding board
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PAVNESS check-ins + executive clarity tools
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Safe place to think out loud, get unstuck, and lead with choice, clarity and peace
Meet PAV LERTJITBANJONG - Life & Career Reinvention Strategist for Unbreakable Leader
Why PAVNESS
I spent 23+ years helping multiple billion dollar brands grow (e.g., Johnson & Johnson, Salesforce, Adobe, TD Ameritrade aka. Charles Schwab), while quietly unraveling behind the scenes. On paper, I was the leader everyone admired. Inside? I was one crisis away from disappearing.
After a divorce, burnout and griefs cracked me open, I realized what no job title, paycheck or a man could protect: Burnout is a symptom. Absence is the root cause. You can’t outrun these problems with more success. You can’t build peace from pressure. So I stopped searching for an escape plan and built a system for living like I’d never collapse again. That is PAVNESS - an internal operating system that brings you back 'online', so you can lead your career and life without disappearing in the process and become an Unbreakable Human, no matter what hits you.
My Mission
My mission is to architect a world with more present leaders, not just more productive ones.
I do this by helping brilliant but burnt-out leaders install a new internal operating system so they can reclaim their presence and build a legacy of choice, clarity, and impact.
Because when you become an Unbreakable Human™, everything changes. You stop being a victim of your circumstances and start living a life of unapologetic choice. You lead with a profound presence that inspires trust, and you build a legacy rooted in impact, not exhaustion.
When leaders lead with choice, clarity, and presence:
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Their team performs with trust, not fear.
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Their decisions are rooted in alignment, not anxiety.
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Their legacy becomes impact-driven, not burnout-fueled.
